Posts are probably going to come rapid fire over the next few days, that is if I remember everything I want to post about :)
I must start by giving thanks to M&K for hosting us during the power outtage.  They kept us and 5 others in air-conditioning for 2 nights.  They may find it to be no big deal, but it is to me.  Home is a sanctuary, and sharing it with no notice and no visible end in sight was a huge guesture.  I guess they DO like us.  Even though it is MY puck.
A great deal of fun was had though, the children had fun running around each other, and M & I had fun playing some Guild Wars :)
It is a difficult to abandon your home, even for a short while. The walls seem to speak with deep sorrow when I must depart for a while, and it always hits me a bit.  It also is because I'm definatly a homebody.  It has been pointed out by Sarahlynn that given a choice of destinations, I would choose my home.  And she's quite right.  I work so hard to pay for this place, and to improve it, I like the ability to actually enjoy it from time to time.
Also related to that is why we don't have a cleaning person like some of our friends.  In my view:
1) Its my house, its my job to clean it.
2) I don't like strangers in my house.
#1 comes from my mother, and #2 is just the way I am.   Though I will admit finding time to clean the house with Gavin gets harder and harder.  Once he gets older I'll be putting the kid to work though!
On a final note, don't disrespect the host.  I see this from time to time and it just pisses me off.  I don't care what problems you have, don't bring it into that person's house.  There are a lot of reasons I don't talk to one of my old roommates anymore, but at the top of the list was the massive disrespect I got when they visited the house, and when I was paying most of the rent.
Don't do it, I have a Claymore and I'm not afraid to use it!
7 years ago
 
 
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